Infidelity can have a significant impact on a marriage. The betrayal of trust can be something that causes irreparable damage to the marriage, often leading to divorce. But how does adultery affect a divorce in California?
No doubt, adding adultery to an already complex and emotional process can make things even more challenging. This article will help you understand how adultery impacts divorce proceedings in California to help those seeking divorce in California navigate the process.
California: A No-Fault Divorce State
California is a no-fault divorce state. That means neither spouse has to prove misconduct on the part of the other. No-fault divorces allow you to get a divorce based on the grounds of “irreconcilable differences.”
Unlike at-fault divorces, no-fault divorces are typically more straightforward and finalized quicker because one spouse doesn’t have to get evidence of wrongdoing on the part of their spouse. Also, since there are no misconduct allegations, there’s less chance of things becoming malicious in court.
Effects of Adultery on Your Divorce Settlement
Although the no-fault route is quicker, it’s still possible that you could still use adultery as leverage. Here are some ways that your divorce settlement could be affected by adultery.
Distribution of Assets
The court in California must approve all divorce plans, including the distribution of assets and debts. If you can prove your spouse used marital funds to fund their affair, the court can move assets from one person to the other (CA Fam Code, Division 7, Division of Property).
Child Custody
When deciding child custody, California courts will determine what is in the “best interest of the child.” When adultery is added to the circumstances, it could prove that one parent is a better fit for primary custody, while the person who had an affair could end up only with visitation rights (CA Fam Code, Division 8, Child Custody).
The court will evaluate factors such as each parent’s ability to provide a stable environment, the relationship the child has with each parent, and any history of domestic violence or substance abuse. If the extramarital relationship negatively impacts their ability to care for their child, the court may consider this in their custody decision.
Spousal Support
While a judge cannot award a spouse spousal support because the other cheated, infidelity can affect alimony if the cheating spouse moved in with their new partner during the divorce. The spouse having an affair can also be held responsible for damages if they brought home an STI (sexually transmitted infection) or if their spouse requires mental healthcare because of the affair and cannot afford it.
Regardless, the court will only award spousal support if one spouse needs financial support to enjoy the same quality of life they had during the marriage. Alimony will rarely be awarded if the judge believes both spouses will be in the same or similar financial situations after the divorce.
Emotional and Psychological Impact
Even though adultery isn’t penalized in California, the emotional and psychological impact on individuals involved can be profound. When a spouse finds out they’re being cheated on, it can lead to feelings of anger, betrayal, and sadness. These emotions can make it more difficult to reach amicable agreements and increase the likelihood that the divorce process will be drawn out.
Mediation and Collaborative Divorce
Couples dealing with adultery may find that alternative methods, such as mediation and collaborative divorce, can be an effective solution. These methods can be less adversarial and more cost-effective, allowing couples to maintain more control over the outcome of their divorce and reduce the emotional strain of a litigated divorce.
- Mediation involves a neutral third-party mediator who helps the couple negotiate and reach a mutually acceptable agreement. During mediation, your attorney will likely have minimal involvement and will not participate in negotiations but will be able to review the final agreement before it’s filed.
- Collaborative divorce involves the couple and their respective attorneys working together to resolve issues amicably without going to court.
Turn to Azemika & Azemika for Knowledgeable, Aggressive Representation for Your Divorce
Although adultery doesn’t carry legal penalties in California, it can still be emotionally devastating. Understanding the legal framework and how adultery can affect your divorce in California can empower you to make informed decisions and seek the support you need during this time.
At Azemika & Azemika, we focus solely on family law. This allows us to use our over 64 years of combined experience to help clients through this difficult time. We have successfully handled some of the most difficult high-asset family law cases in Kern County and can help you.
Contact us today for a consultation.