Alimony can be a topic of contention for many people, especially for the spouse who has to make the payments. Most alimony recipients are women, but what about men? Can a woman pay a man alimony?
Spousal support payments generally go to women, but that’s not always the case. Sometimes, men can request and receive alimony payments from their ex-wives. What does this mean for couples divorcing in California?
Whether you’re a man seeking spousal support from your ex-wife, or a wife wondering if your ex-husband could ask for alimony, we can help.
Can a Woman Pay a Man Alimony in California?
Alimony payments are determined based on each spouse’s financial situation. This means that in many divorce cases, the man could be financially worse off than his ex-wife, and therefore he would be eligible to request spousal or partner support payments.
Alimony is designed to make both parties’ financial situations more equitable after a divorce. If one spouse earns a great deal more than the other, the lesser earning spouse may request alimony payments to help them financially after the divorce.
At one time, men were primarily considered the breadwinners in most families. However, today many women earn more than their husbands, and in the case of a divorce, they may find that their ex-husbands are eligible to request alimony.
Why Don’t More Men Ask For Alimony?
If alimony is an option for men in California and other states, why don’t we hear about more men receiving alimony payments? Men often don’t receive alimony payments because they don’t ask for them.
Gender stereotypes may make men feel somehow inadequate for asking for alimony payments. Seeking spousal or partner support one’s your ex-wife may feel somehow emasculating for some men. Men don’t want to be seen as weak or lesser than their ex, but this isn’t a fair assessment of the situation.
Family courts may also have a bias towards women regarding alimony. Men may have to prove that they deserve the financial support, and the courts may closely scrutinize their work efforts and financial situation before alimony is awarded.
Whether it’s pride or gender bias that prevents men from seeking alimony, the bottom line remains the same. Men can certainly ask for alimony payments in California, but they should be prepared to have their finances scrutinized during the process.
Are You Likely To Qualify for Alimony?
Alimony is designed to help balance out the financial aspects of a divorce. Even if one spouse earns far more than the other during a marriage, it is assumed that both spouses have equal access to the money.
If one spouse earns far more than the other during a divorce, the other spouse may seek alimony payments. If one spouse gave up their job to take care of children or the home, the stay-at-home spouse might seek alimony in the case of a divorce.
Not too long ago, women were the ones who primarily gave up their jobs to stay home and look after children. Today, more and more men are choosing to postpone their careers so that their spouses can pursue higher aspirations. This means more men are staying home with children and putting themselves on an uneven financial footing with their wives in the event of a divorce.
If you gave up your job or the chance to grow in your career so that your spouse could earn more money, you might qualify for alimony payments. If your career suffered during your marriage, you might be eligible to receive alimony payments. The best thing you can do in either of these cases is to seek the assistance of a skilled family law attorney to handle your divorce.
Let Azemika Law Help You Navigate Your Divorce
Divorce is challenging in many ways. Emotions run high, and it can be difficult to see why spousal support payments need to be made. But too often, one spouse leaves a marriage with more financial security than the other, and in order to make things fairer for both parties, alimony is the best solution.
It can be easy to let pride get in the way when it comes to divorce, but if you qualify for alimony, it could help you get back on better financial footing after your marriage has ended. Whether you’re a man or a woman in the position to receive alimony payments, the best way to ensure that you are treated fairly is to hire a skilled attorney to help you navigate your divorce.
Azemika & Azemika understand that divorces and alimony are stressful and often confusing. We are devoted to helping our clients with every aspect of family law, from divorce and spousal support to child support and custody issues. Contact us today to discuss how we can help you with your family law needs.