Divorce is a complex and often emotionally charged process, and when pregnancy is involved, it can feel incredibly overwhelming. Navigating the legal and personal challenges of divorce during pregnancy requires careful planning and a clear understanding of the unique considerations at play. Even though pregnancy adds layers of complexity, it does not affect the eligibility to file for a divorce.
In California, family law prioritizes the mother’s and unborn child’s health and welfare. This means the divorce process may involve additional legal and financial factors to support the mother during this time. This article will explore what you can expect and provide practical tips on managing a divorce while preparing to welcome a child.
Understanding California’s Divorce Laws
California is a no-fault divorce state, meaning neither spouse has to prove the wrongdoing on the part of the other to file for divorce. The most common grounds for divorce are “irreconcilable differences,” meaning the marriage has broken down beyond repair.
However, it’s essential to understand that California imposes a mandatory six-month waiting period before a divorce can be finalized. This waiting period is often beneficial for expectant parents because it allows for careful planning and thoughtful decision-making during an emotionally intense time.
The Legal Status of the Unborn Child
While California courts generally don’t address child custody, visitation, or support until after a child is born, the unborn child’s welfare can still play a role in the divorce process. Since pregnancy can involve unique health needs and emotional stresses, the court may consider how a divorce might impact the mother’s and child’s well-being when making temporary decisions.
Here are some ways the unborn child’s status may come into play during a divorce.
- Health Insurance — It’s vital to ensure that health insurance coverage remains intact during and after the pregnancy, as prenatal and postpartum care can be expensive. The court may mandate that the spouse with existing health coverage maintains it for the pregnant spouse and unborn child.
- Living Arrangements and Financial Support — During a divorce, the court can issue temporary orders for spousal support and housing arrangements to ensure the pregnant spouse’s stability. This support can help with the costs of prenatal care, reduce stress, and foster a healthy environment for the unborn child.
Parentage and Legal Rights
In California, if a child is born during a marriage, it is presumed that both spouses are the child’s legal parents. However, if the pregnancy is a result of a relationship outside of the marriage, determining legal parentage will be essential for establishing custody, visitation, and child support.
If paternity is uncertain, it’s generally best to resolve these issues before the child is born. Establishing paternity legally ensures that both parents’ rights are considered and affects custody, visitation, and financial obligations. California has procedures, including voluntary acknowledgment of paternity and genetic testing, to help clarify these matters.
Child Custody and Support Considerations
Because the court cannot issue custody and child support orders until the child is born, parents going through a divorce during pregnancy will have to make temporary arrangements. After the birth, a formal parenting plan can be created, and the court will finalize custody and child support orders.
The court’s primary concern in custody matters is the child’s best interest. They will consider factors like the child’s health, safety, and welfare and each parent’s ability to care for the child. The courts establish physical and legal custody arrangements when the child is born.
When determining where the child will primarily reside (physical custody), the courts may initially favor the mother, especially if she is breastfeeding. However, the father can still be granted visitation rights.
Legal custody entails making important decisions about the child’s health, education, and general welfare. Even if the parents are divorced, joint legal custody is shared in California, provided both parents can cooperate effectively.
Temporary Orders for Support
During the divorce, you may need financial support to cover medical expenses, living costs, and other essential expenses tied to the pregnancy. California courts can issue temporary orders for spousal support (alimony) and child support once the child is born. These orders are designed to ensure the pregnant spouse has the necessary resources to maintain a healthy pregnancy and prepare for life as a single parent.
Temporary spousal support is calculated based on each spouse’s financial circumstances. Child support will be calculated once the child is born. The amount is based on factors like each parent’s income and the time they spend with the child. While temporary orders can be adjusted post-birth, they provide an immediate solution for the pregnant spouse’s financial needs.
Practical Tips for Navigating a Divorce During Pregnancy
Going through a divorce while expecting a child can be physically and emotionally exhausting. Here are some practical tips to help make the process more manageable.
- Prioritize Your Health and Well-being — Pregnancy and divorce can each be stressful on their own. Remember to prioritize your physical and mental health by establishing a support network of family, friends, and healthcare providers. Counseling or therapy may also be beneficial during this time.
- Develop a Financial Plan — Pregnancy and the prospect of single parenthood can come with financial challenges. Work closely with a financial planner or legal advisor to understand your financial rights and develop a plan to secure financial stability.
- Create a Parenting Plan in Advance — While you can’t obtain a custody order until the child is born, start discussing and creating a tentative parenting plan with your soon-to-be ex-spouse. Doing so will ensure that both parties understand each other’s expectations and reduce the chances of future disputes.
- Seek Legal Counsel Early On — The laws surrounding divorce, parentage, custody, and support are complex, especially during pregnancy. Consulting a qualified family law attorney early in the process will help protect your rights and give you a clearer understanding of the road ahead.
- Consider Alternative Dispute Resolution — If possible, consider using mediation or collaborative divorce methods. These approaches often help reduce conflict, lower costs, and produce mutually beneficial arrangements without court intervention.
- Document Your Communication and Expenses — Keep track of any communication with your spouse regarding financial support, medical needs, and parenting plans. Additionally, document any pregnancy-related expenses. This information can be valuable in court to secure adequate financial support.
After the Child is Born
Once the child is born, the court can finalize custody and support arrangements. California family law prioritizes the child’s best interests, so be prepared to work cooperatively with your ex-spouse to establish a stable environment for your newborn. After the birth, consider seeking the assistance of a family counselor or mediator if any unresolved custody issues remain.
If the divorce process is still ongoing post-birth, this is also a good time to revisit your legal arrangements and adjust as needed. When finalizing your divorce and custody orders, the court will consider any changes in your or your spouse’s financial situation, the child’s healthcare needs, and other relevant factors.
Are You Pregnant and Going Through a Divorce? Turn to Azemika & Azemika
Going through a divorce while pregnant in California presents unique challenges. By understanding California’s legal requirements and leveraging available resources, expectant parents can build a foundation for a stable co-parenting relationship and a positive environment for their child. Seeking the support of family law professionals, healthcare providers, and loved ones can also make a significant difference in ensuring a healthy transition for you and your future child.
If you’re pregnant and considering a divorce, you may feel more comfortable working with a female family law attorney. Amanda Azemika is a partner at Azemika & Azemika and is here to help you navigate your divorce.
She was admitted to the California State Bar in 2021. She graduated from USC in 2015 with magna cum laude honors and graduated from USD School of Law with a concentration in Children’s Rights.
Ms. Azemika works exclusively in family law and is a member of the California State Bar Association, Family Law section, and the Kern County Bar Association, Family Law section. She currently serves on the Board of Directors for the Bakersfield ARC and the Women’s Lawyers Section of the Kern County Bar Association, as well as the co-president of the Bakersfield ARC Board for Young Professionals.
Contact us today for a consultation with Ms. Azemika or one of our other experienced Bakersfield divorce attorneys.
